Tuesday, May 3, 2011

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So it's been way too long, but then I always say that.  Lately, I've been wondering if this blog is just another project that's fallen by the wayside and is not really worth the effort anymore.  Maybe.  It seems like there's always something that needs to get done.
Wow, this post is really Pollyanna-ish already isn't it? 
I started the blog to keep family updated on what we're doing.  Sort of.  Part of me liked being clever too, and reading comments.  I still like that intent - to keep all of you, our family and friends in the loop with life as we know it.  So - I'm giving this blog another chance.  I hope you've kept checking to see if I've gotten motivated to at least post a few words and some pictures.  Sorry that it's taken me so long to do so. 
Anyway - here's the update:
Aiden:
Lost three teeth in one weekend!  I will post a picture of his newly gap-toothed grin.  He did not take kindly to the nickname "Toothless", so we're still calling him Aiden.  He is enjoying first grade and loves to play Transformers and tell jokes.  He was just recently diagnosed with ADHD, which adds another dimension to our lives.  We've started medication, with the understanding that we will work to get supports and structure in place so that he is on meds for the shortest time possible.  I've tried to explain ADHD to him as sort of like a superpower, and we call his meds his "vitamins".  He is pretty good about taking them - though that could be because I found that sprinkling the vitamins over a spoonful of ice cream helps him to swallow them better.  He's making great strides at school and enjoys lunch, gym and recess.  He is a great reader and loves to read comic books.

Owen:
Turns five in June!  I can't believe that he is almost ready for Kindergarten!  He continues to enjoy preschool, and recently "graduated" from home Occupational therapy services.  He is still receiving speech therapy twice a week and some therapy at school.  He has blossomed in the past two years since he was diagnosed with PDD-NOS and his teacher thinks that he'll be fine in Kindergarten with some support. (I'm also praying that he'll have the same Kindergarten teacher as Aiden - he is awesome!).  He also loves Transformers and cars and helping around the house with such tasks as helping to cook pancakes and holding Dad's tools when he is making home improvements.

Connor:
A very busy three year old.  He makes me laugh with his "Connorisms" like calling cubed ham "cute" ham.  He loves to play anything with his older brothers, and calls them "my boys" and "my" Aiden and Owen.  He keeps me company while the older boys are at school and loves to go to Target when we run errands.  We're hoping that potty-training is on the horizon for Connor soon, but out of all the boys I really believe that it will happen when it's totally his decision.

Trevor:
Finally decided to walk and is now walking everywhere!  He also loves to climb on the dining room table and eat/play with whatever might be on there.  He is saying mom, dad and no - though not often.  I think he specializes in baby mind-control and just uses that to get us to do what he wants. :)  His big brothers make him laugh with their antics, and he is a great cuddler. 

Kurt and I are staying busy with work, school and assorted hobbies.  I started a math class online in January and will finish this month.  I can't wait!  Kurt is still enjoying his job and is looking forward to disk golf season. 

Okay - time for pictures:
 Trevor at the Easter egg hunt at church.
Connor and Owen playing in our flooded backyard.  Transformers costumes and masks, snow boots and pajamas are required attire.
Aiden at the Easter egg hunt.  There's a good view of one of his missing teeth!  He looks so grown-up to me!
The boys with Kurt at Buckland Park.  We were flying kites.  It was a fantastic day for it! 
Me and the other kite flyers. 
Connor LOVED flying kites.  I was initially worried that he might fly away, because it was a very windy day, but he held on tight, and was the last to pack it in for the day. 
 Our awesome Star Wars kite.  We also had a Transformers one.  Best dollar I ever spent.
 Toothless decorating cupcakes at Grandma & Grandpa Z.'s on Easter.
 Connor working in his favorite medium: frosting.
 Trevor was not particularly interested in kite-flying but he DID like taking off into the parking lot whenever he could!
  More pictures of the flood.  I've nicknamed our property "The Bayou".  Sounds nicer than swamp....

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

So There

"You've been blogging so well lately."  Kurt says as I scramble around in all my short-order cook glory.  Yes, that's right, I'm preparing about five separate meals during this conversation.
"Actually, I shouldn't say that.  I shouldn't be sarcastic about that," Kurt continues.
I laugh and say "Yeah, because then I might blog about it."
Kurt laughs and says, "No."
Well - what do you think of this, Kurt? 

Monday, January 31, 2011

I'll Help You Pack

A conversation from Saturday:

Aiden:  Mom, I wish that I had a nice mom that would take me to Wal-Mart to look at the "How to Train Your Dragon" toys and let me eat ice cream for breakfast.

Me: Well, you look for her and if you find her then you can stay with her but until then you're stuck with me.

Hmmm....ice cream for breakfast.  Not really opposed to that.  Would it rock his world if I dished it up one early morning?

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Happy Birthday!

It's not official until tomorrow, but Connor turns three on Sunday, January 16th.  Here's a picture of the birthday boy:
Here are a few facts about Connor:
1. He loves the color yellow
2. His favorite foods are cookies, swedish fish, pizza, clementines, strawberries, ice cream
3. He likes to help himself to my oatmeal at breakfast-time.
4. He loves his brothers
5. His favorite toy is his Bumblebee transformer
6. He wants to do everything that the big boys are doing
7. He is my only boy with blue eyes
8.  He can melt Grandma Zundel's heart in about 4 milliseconds
9. He has a fantastic giggle
10.  He loves to draw and will often carry a little notebook and crayon for such a purpose.

Happy Birthday Connor!  We love you!

Saturday, January 1, 2011

Expect the Unexpected

So this was going to be an end-of-the-year blog post with lots of lovely pictures and details about what we've been up to.  I had it all planned out.  When I had a moment, then bam! It was all going to come together.  I would unveil the lovely family photo that our good friend Brandon so graciously took of us.  I was going to illustrate my sparkling prose with pictures that would show off my cute little men.  So what happened?
Connor threw up on our computer.  On which I have all of our pictures stored.  And I'm feeling really sick and it's making me grumpy and if one more person asks me to transform their Transformer from a robot to a car then that's it. 
So said computer is out of commission, and I'm typing this from Kurt's work computer.  No pictures, but I still feel the need to fill you in on what we've been doing.  You know, for the edification of all five of you that might still be checking to see if I updated this blog. 
Anyway - how was your Christmas?  Aiden declared ours the best Christmas ever and we have a pile of new toys that Santa and/or loving aunts and uncles gave the boys so enough said about that.  We made salt dough ornaments, and cookies and I actually sent out Christmas cards.  We cut down our own tree and had fun decorating and then taking ornaments away from Trevor once he pulled them off the tree.  It was a lovely holiday season and I only broke down in tears once - what more could you ask for? 
Here's the update I promised:
Trevor:  Turned one on Christmas Day!  I loved not being in the hospital this year, though last year I had a really good reason.   He is crawling and creeping and getting teeth.  He loves to laugh at his older brothers and has a really great disposition - nice and mellow.

Connor: Turns three on January 16th.  He makes us laugh with his remarks and his independence.  He started sleeping in a toddler bed and will go upstairs at night when he's ready to sleep.  He loves to draw and play with his older brothers.  When he's not throwing up on the computer he's my little buddy - we have a lot of fun while the older boys are at school!

Owen: Turned four on June 5th.  He loves preschool and his teachers and friends.  I'll be registering him for Kindergarten soon - I can't believe it!  We are talking with the school district to see what would be the best placement for him - and I'm anticipating that he will still qualify for speech and occupational therapy.  He is daddy's helper in all sorts of home improvement projects and loves to play with his brothers.  Transformers and cars are his favorite things. 

Aiden: Turned 6 on September 26th.  He is in first grade this year and loves his class and teacher.  He goes to school all day and loves to buy lunch (he calls it the "hot entree")  He had fun playing soccer this summer and loves to play outside in the snow.  He is doing great with his reading and other school work and loves to read to his brothers. 

Wende: Turned a year older.  I took some photography classes this summer and fell in love with taking pictures.  I have an old-school SLR that I use and love to develop my own film and print my own pictures at a local Community darkroom.  Kurt also got me PhotoShop for Christmas so I'm excited to start using that.  I would love to show a few of my favorite shots - hopefully our computer will be up soon and running.  I signed up for an online Math class that starts this January at Monroe Community College.  It will be the first of a bunch of prerequisites that I will be taking before I apply to a graduate program in Occupational Therapy.  I'm excited and nervous - this is going to be a journey, but I really can't wait to pursue OT!

Kurt: Turned more gray this year.  He continues to enjoy his job and co-workers at ITT.  He is playing soccer at least once a week and refereeing the boys here at home when they start to roughhouse.  He recently got the basement all cleaned out and looking fabulous and is planning on doing some more home improvement stuff this year - like a backsplash in the kitchen, getting the attic ready to renovate, etc.  I'm so grateful to have a handy husband! 

Okay -  so that's us.   Adieu.
Happy New Year! 

Friday, November 19, 2010

Not where I've been, but what I've read...

I have about ten thousand words to write about what we've been up to.  But they still need to be downloaded and I wanted to share this poem with you.  I found it on the Writer's Almanac.  It spoke to my mother-side.  Also - Mom, think of it as an explanation/apology for my twisted sense of humor.  You've been a good sport for the past 34 years.

Diagnosis


by Sharon Olds


By the time I was six months old, she knew something

was wrong with me. I got looks on my face

she had not seen on any child

in the family, or the extended family,

or the neighborhood. My mother took me in

to the pediatrician with the kind hands,

a doctor with a name like a suit size for a wheel:

Hub Long. My mom did not tell him

what she thought in truth, that I was Possessed.

It was just these strange looks on my face—

he held me, and conversed with me,

chatting as one does with a baby, and my mother

said, She's doing it now! Look!

She's doing it now! and the doctor said,

What your daughter has

is called a sense

of humor. Ohhh, she said, and took me

back to the house where that sense would be tested

and found to be incurable.

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

My favorite summer event....

I was doing the dishes and congratulating myself on updating my blog when I thought of an idea for a post.  I love lists.  I want to post lists on my blog for my and hopefully other's amusement.  So here is a list.  But first some background...
If you're Mormon and you live in this corner of upstate NY you anxiously anticipate those couple of magical weeks in July when you can go out and experience the wondrous jewel that is the Hill Cumorah Pageant.  It's a play based on the Book of Mormon, which we believe to be companion scripture to the Bible.  It has a great stage on the side of a hill, a cast of several hundred people and it's just good wholesome fun.  Pageant ended this past weekend, and so in honor of this year's performance (and our presence there last Tuesday night - if you want to see a picture then scroll down to the previous post) here is my first midweek blog list:

Things to know about the Hill Cumorah Pageant
1. No volcano this year.

2  The work crew doesn't take a bow
The costume department got rid of the concubine and Lamanite warrior costumes.  No more scantily-clad teenagers with bad farmer tans greeting you before the performance.

3.  Best pageant dialogue:
"Take him, bind him, burn him to death."
"I see I have a poisonous snake among my priestsssssssss...."
"Baptize me, Alma"

4. Things to take with you if your interest is piqued and you plan on going to next year's performance:
Umbrella
Licorice or swedish fish (and possibly money for the concession stands - ummmm, salt potatoes!)
Bug spray
BYU t-shirt

5. Tips for the protestors that always harrass the performance attendees on our way to our seats:
Thank you for not shouting during the show.  Keep doing that.
Make sure there is always a guy in a devil suit.
Vary your inflammatory sign colors - they just blend together if they're all bright yellow, and then the insults don't have the same impact.
You need more bullhorns and maybe a few chants/raps.  Costumes, anyone?
If you're trying to start fights then you need to be more verbose.  Try using, "Hey fatty."  or "Excuse me, brood mare...(especially effective for families with several children).  Lets ramp up the insults here.

Have a fabulous Tuesday!